Grief redux

A thing happened, it wasn’t a big thing, it’s not an anniversary, nobody died today that I know of, the avalanche of grief came for a visit today, maybe it’s the build up of tiny little things, people leaving my world, a cosmic clearout of an old life, my working […]


Talking about ‘racism’ – The user guide.

There is an important conversation that is happening over the world over. This is more prominently happening with the perceived surge of Syrian refugees globally. As an active participant of the human race it is important to accept the fact that not everyone will share your world view. Not everyone shares my world view […]


The emotional intelligence of an Avocado

Lately I’ve been pretty frustrated with the 1% of people in my world, you’ll know them, they’re the loudest people in the room, the ones who need to be the centre of attention, who want to be in control of e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g, who think they have power when really they have […]


Don’t forget to breathe 1

I have this odd sense of gratitude for the ability to breathe, when grief dragged me into its clutches of darkness in the early days it resulted in my losing the ability to breathe. I remember it was the first thing I noticed that I wasn’t able to do, apart from talk, eat, […]


My rules on how to be a better human

(written April 30th 2014) Rule One: Be a good person and just help others because you can – not because you want something in return. Rule Two: Be generous with knowledge. Rule Three: In the face of adversity, remember it’s not actually about you, it’s totally about them and that’s […]


Life Level – Rookie

Lately I’ve been feeling like a total rookie in this whole life thing. In my business things have been pretty rock and roll, not because I’ve gone on some kind of ‘throw myself into work’ rampage to avoid dealing with the death of my partner, more that I’ve actually been […]


The scale of purple monkeys & grief

I’m writing this blog, in part, for my own therapy and personal healing.  I’m also writing this to share because I know what I have to say will help those of you that may be battling in your lives with grief.  It is my hope that these blogs will help you gain […]


Time travel, Parallel universe, Cloning and Grief

The conversation went something like this between a friend and myself. K: Don’t laugh, this is going to sound nuts but I’ve totally Googled time travel. M: *laughs* That’s totally normal hun, add parallel universes & cloning from my list. K: Obviously we’re not the only ones because there was […]